Birthdays, with context

A birthday reminder app that remembers the person, not just the date

Most birthday apps tell you the date. BlackBook also keeps your notes on each person, like their kids’ names or the trip they just took, so the message you send actually sounds like you.

Download BlackBook on the App Store

Why a date alone isn’t enough

Your phone’s calendar can tell you it’s Sam’s birthday. It can’t tell you Sam just started a new job, or that you promised to send the photos from the wedding. That context is what turns “HBD!” into a message that lands. BlackBook keeps the reminder and the context in the same place.

What BlackBook does for birthdays

You want to…In BlackBook
Never miss a birthdayBirthday reminders for the people you add
Know what to sayNotes and conversation history for each person, right there when the reminder comes up
Follow up afterFollow-up reminders, so “let’s get dinner soon” actually happens
See who needs you this weekPulse turns your notes, history and reminders into a suggested next step
Keep it privateNo account; data stays on your iPhone and private iCloud; no ad SDKs, never sold

Set it up in five minutes

  1. Download BlackBook. No sign-up screen.
  2. Add the people whose birthdays matter most: family, close friends, your best clients.
  3. Add each birthday and one note: the detail you’d hate to forget.
  4. When the reminder comes up, read your note, then send something specific.
  5. Add a follow-up reminder if you made a plan.

For a longer walkthrough, read how to remember birthdays and follow up with friends.

When a simpler app is the better fit

If all you want is a list of dates, your phone’s built-in calendar and Contacts birthdays work fine. BlackBook is for people who want to remember the person behind the date and stay in touch the rest of the year too. See also how to keep in touch with people.

BlackBook facts

  • Platform: iPhone, iOS 17.6 or later
  • Price: free download; optional BlackBook Pro subscription (prices shown in the app)
  • Free plan: 25 people, 2 notes per person, 30 days of interaction history
  • Pro: unlimited people and full history, VIP reminders and insights, relationship notes with tags, duplicate detection, BlackBook AI
  • AI: on-device via Apple Intelligence (Pro, iOS 26, compatible iPhone)
  • Privacy: data on your device and private iCloud, no account, no ad SDKs, data never sold
  • Developer: Preston Earnest / Earnestly Studios LLC

Frequently asked questions

Is BlackBook a birthday reminder app?

Yes. BlackBook keeps birthday and follow-up reminders for the people you add, alongside your notes and conversation history for each person.

Do I need an account?

No. BlackBook needs no account, sign-up or login. Your people and notes stay on your iPhone and in your private iCloud.

Is it free?

BlackBook is free to download with a free plan of 25 people, two notes per person and 30 days of interaction history. BlackBook Pro is an optional subscription for unlimited people and full history; prices are shown in the app.

Does it sell my data or show ads?

No. BlackBook includes no advertising SDKs and never sells your data.

What iPhone do I need?

Any iPhone on iOS 17.6 or later.

Remember the birthday and the person.

BlackBook is free to download for iPhone (iOS 17.6+). Start with 25 people, no account needed.

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